Friday, May 19, 2006

Le in Denial

Just chat for a while with Le in Yahoo! Messenger. We do have meaningful conversation about the latest celeb’s rumors. Haha, we’re such a gossip-mastermind (or in Indonesia, you call it bigos-biang gossip, wakakak) since we know almost all of the latest gossip.
Well, Le is also one bisexual-in-denial person. It’s kinda funny actually, to observe a person who has strong tendencies to be bisexual or homosexual but try to deny it hardly by pretending to be a hetero.
Recently, I’ve read about such case from a psychological article in a magazine. It said that person who tries to deny his/ her actual sexual orientation couldn’t enjoy both his/ her personal and sexual relationship with others. So why bother on such problems if you can deal with it. Besides, homosexual or bisexual IS NOT a disease (as those anti-gays think). And also that doesn’t kill you to admit your sexual orientation.
Please understand that I don’t urge people who have those tendencies to be homosexual or bisexual either, but I think it will be easier to accept it and enjoy life. Just deal with it and go ahead.

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